40 by 40…watch out world!
December 31, 2010 at 12:00 pm (Bucket List, Somewhat Serious) (40, bucket list, goals, rachel baron)
I’ve always been a very goal driven person. So a few months back, I complained to my therapist that I felt like I was just floating along because I had no goals. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to be when I grew up. Recently, I realized, duh, that my life is awesomely sweet now, and *that’s* why I don’t have the big goals that people usually set. I’m pretty damn happy, so I don’t feel that dooming sense of dissatisfaction lurking over my life any longer.
But I do like having goals. It forces my somewhat-lazy butt to get in gear and remember to live life *now*. So even though I won’t be 40 for over two more years, I was inspired by another friend to create a list of 40 items I’d like to accomplish by the time I’m 40…some of them will probably take the 2+ years to get there, so think of it as good planning. And I promise to subject you to all the lurid details when I cross one off the list
- See the Northern Lights
- Climb a rock wall
- See the impact crater in Arizona
- Run a 5K
- Have my picture taken with one of the lions outside the NYPL
- Go to the Smithsonian
- Have deep dish pizza in Chicago
- Eat fish caught that day from the ocean
- Visit Ellicottville for the day
- Go camping (yep, never been camping for real, Girl Scouts doesn’t count)
- Go to the Eternal Flame Falls
- Swim in the natural pool at Buttermilk State Park
- Take a lampworking class from a well-respected artist
- Have a poem published in a print journal
- Write a novel-length piece of fiction
- Learn to play “Everlong” on the guitar
- Buy a pair of Doc Marten boots (preferably the red velvet ones)
- Donate platelets
- Sign up for the Bone Marrow Registry
- Swim with dolphins (preferably not because I got tossed overboard)
- Go whale watching again
- Find that perfect red lipstick
- Have dinner at the Buffalo Chop House
- Learn to make stained glass
- Donate 500 Beads to Beads of Courage
- Visit the Outer Banks again (need a replacement Dirty Dick’s glass!)
- Go snorkeling & hopefully see a sea turtle
- Make a homemade pie
- Make homemade lemonade in the summer
- Try 10 new fruits/vegetables I’ve never eaten before
- Learn to make stamped metal jewelry
- Make some resin jewelry pendants
- Go on a ghost hunt
- Visit Savannah, GA again
- Drink nothing but water for a week
- Have a butterfly land on my hand
- Take the train somewhere
- Learn to make clothes on a sewing machine
- Learn basic Calculus
- See the Persieds meteor shower


marcy Lamberson said,
January 1, 2011 at 10:44 pm
What a fabulous list! I can’t wait to hear as you achieve your goals!
#28 is done…hello cherry pie! « Rachel Baron Writes said,
March 14, 2011 at 11:37 pm
[...] I first put together my “40 before 40” list, I wondered which number I would cross off first…would it be an altruistic [...]
accidentalstepmom said,
March 21, 2011 at 1:02 pm
I love this list! I have almost exactly a year before 40, and you’ve inspired me to make my own list. Regarding #22, may I suggest Stila’s shade Lover? One of my faves.